If you are not prepared, those left behind could be in confusion or in conflict as to what to do. So it is always good to be ready and to be prepared so that nothing is over looked.
The first thing then is to ask yourself these questions.
Have you put your affairs in order? Are there instructions that can be followed and your wishes carried out?
In the event of debilitating disease that leaves one helpless and in constant pain, you may not be able to make your wishes known. Thus it is advisable to put in black and white, e.g. when you have suffered a massive heart attack and are comatose, instructions such as “no life support” so that you can depart and not be held back by machines. This will only prolong everyone’s suffering.
You can also have your last will and testament done so that all your worldly assets are distributed according to your wishes. This will eliminate any disputes among those left behind.
You can also specify the type of ceremony to see your earthly remains farewelled and disposed of.
Will it be a burial and if so have you prepared your resting place? Will it be a cremation and if so, where will your ashes be scattered? Will there be a church service and have you selected your hymns? Who will deliver your eulogy? What about a party to celebrate your life?
What about the “To do “ list that spells out e.g. the termination of your credit cards, where you have kept them, what to do with the contents of your computer, e.g. the photos that are kept there, your ebooks, your websites, your email accounts, are you going to have them deleted?
Making such preparations will help those loved ones that you leave behind to know what to do. They will not be left confused, wondering what is best for you and how to go about it. Giving them direction will go a long way towards easing their pain.
Do not leave such matters aside or refuse to think about it as we do not know when our number is up. The grim reaper comes without warning and it is good to be prepared.
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